Last week I talked about being afraid to challenge the norm, and the boss-induced guilt (as well as a rather heavy personal story). I also wrote about job stress, and how (for me) it took on some not-so-awesome physical characteristics. It was an interesting week, and I know that many of you have had similar feelings, and experiences – which is kind of why I decided to write this series in the first place.
I Had Money Issues
Now I know I am not the only person out there with money issues, but I may be the only person who did a happy dance every time her credit card actually accepted a charge. It was like playing a high stakes game at a casino. I am not even kidding you. Oh, and I think I may have thrown my arms up into the air with great joy a few times.
For me, saving money was hard. Really hard. One day I had a paycheck’s worth of money in my bank account, and four days later I had like $50 left. Unless my job was really getting to me, then I would use every cent I had on a 2-4 day trip to Vancouver, or Nelson, or somewhere that was not home. Apparently, those trips (although they were so fun) were kind of a bad idea, financially.
Also, I may or may not have used Money Mart to get payday loans from time to time.
Don’t judge me. I said I had money issues!!!
Saving Money Doesn’t Mean I Have to be a Hermit?!
There seems to be this stigma that if you’re saving money, you have to become a hermit. It just means that you have to think smarter and do a little more planning; which can totally be done. Seriously, it can! Using personal finance software is a great way to keep your money in order (and I’ll write more about Budgeting, and keeping track of your money next week).
One of the most important things about saving money is the part where you give yourself free days. It’s kind of like the Weight Watchers diet program. Give yourself a money saving cheat day (but try to do that only once a week, or once every two weeks).
- Go out for a luxury dinner.
- Go to the movies and have your favourite treats.
- Drink until you can’t remember the colour of your panties – this could be a fun one for the guys.
If you’re like me, you could become a financial bulimic; if you don’t give yourself a break. Budget for fun, but don’t go overboard. In other words, if you go overboard, shopping can be like sex; a rush of animalistic adrenaline, followed by an awkward morning after an encounter. Then there is the shopping walk of shame, which involves returning items you bought like 12 hours prior. Yes, we have all done it, don’t even think about lying to yourself.
Money doesn’t have to control you. It’s not the enemy. Learning to control your money, and how to pinch your pennies is hard at times, but it can be done.
I know what you’re thinking, “I have a mortgage/a low paying job/debt, I have no money to save!”. Guess what? There ARE ways to save, the trick is finding the tips that will suit your lifestyle. Sure, it may take a little longer to accomplish your goal, but you CAN do it!
How Can I Save Money, If I Don’t Have a Steady Job?
It’s a valid question and one that I’ve asked myself on occasion. After all, travel is only for the rich, not us poor people. Uh… Am I wrong? Huh?
Finding money can be a bit of a challenge, but some times it can be a fun challenge. There are several ways to save money (check out the post this coming Thursday), but what about making money? You have to make money in order to save money. And in there lies the stress of the situation. How can you save money to travel, when you don’t have a steady income/job? Believe it or not, there are ways to make more money, it’s just a matter of deciding which methods will work for you.
As I geared up for my trip, and started to downsize my apartment I used websites like Kijiji.ca and eBay to sell my stuff. I love using Kijiji because I can decide on my price, and people usually pick large items up, plus I don’t have to worry about mailing things. It’s a lazy person’s solution to making money. The trick to making money with sites like Kijiji, Craiglist, or eBay is to give detailed descriptions, take good photos of what you’re selling, and asking for a fair price.
If you love being creative, then you could consider doing things like:
- Opening a shop on etsy.com and selling things you’re made, or second-hand items you’ve found. Like Kijiji, craigslist, and eBay, full descriptions and good quality photos are a must. I suggest looking through the website to see what works for other shops, then try something similar.
- Try renting a table at a local flea market, or farmer’s market and sell things you’ve made. Christmas ornaments. Preserves. Baked goods. Art. Photography. Jewelry. If you have some creative talent, and the time to create items for sale, give it a try!
- If you’re thinking of teaching English while you travel for extra income, you may be able to do it from home as well. There are websites where you can earn money doing conversational English.
- If you’re a travel blogger, try writing freelance articles. It’s a rough process, but you can learn a lot, and the extra money is quite welcome from time to time.
- Do you have a car? Turn it into a moving billboard. There are a few companies out there who will PAY YOU to wrap your car with an ad. The money depends on the type of ad, your location, the term etc.
- Do you enjoy teaching? Become a tutor in your spare time.
- Get a newspaper route and deliver papers early in the morning.
- Do mystery shopping
- If you enjoy photography or graphic design, try selling your work through websites like 500px.com or redbubble.com.
“Impossible is a word to be found only in the dictionary of fools.” Napoleon Bonaparte
Figuring Out How to Save Money
As I’ve mentioned, saving money was difficult. My money seemed to be channelling Houdini; and very successfully I might add. When my Grandmother passed away I started to really think about following my dream of traveling long term, which meant I actually started to think about how I was going to save money – while secretly hoping my inheritance would come in before I left to travel.
Why was it difficult to save money? (aside from the fact that my money was channelling Houdini)
I had a full time job (which did not pay me more than $40,000/yr), but I also had an apartment (in downtown Calgary), and a car. I had to buy food (occasionally this involved steak, or artisan cheese), pay for a cell phone, and because my brother was staying with me, I also had to have cable t.v. for a few months. Life. I had a life, and it seemed like I needed my money to live my life.
Until I took the time to sit down and FIND ways to save my money.
I lived alone and worked a lot of hours, so when I brother moved out the first thing I did was cancel my cable. I was spending like $60 for TV and I barely watched it because I worked a lot – and when I was home it was just background noise as I did other things. So, I cancelled my cable and opted to listen to my DVD collection of Gilmore Girls, or Lord of the Rings.
Woot! $60 extra dollars each month. But… that was not enough to make my travel dreams come true, I had to do other things as well.
Another way I saved money was by saving my bottles, cans, jugs, and anything else the bottle depot would accept. Sure, it’s not a lot of cash – maybe $5 each time – but every little bit counts in the long run. Plus, it’s good for the environment. You know, reduce, reuse, recycle.
For me, grocery shopping was a hurtle. I have a gourmet palate at times, and changing the items I was buying, was freaking hard; but it saved me a lot of money. These are some of the things I started to do…
- I created a food budget. I think I spent $50 a week on food.
- I (gulp) changed brands; not on everything, but on some things. I actually started to buy No Name food like stuffing mix, canned veggies, pork shake-n-bake. You get the idea. Pretty packaging and popular names don’t always mean they taste better than the solid yellow labels with minimal black writing, but many times those popular brands are more expensive.
- Clip coupons – I didn’t go extreme, but I did use coupons for things I wanted.
- I ALWAYS carried a calculator. Yes, I shop with a calculator, and I USED IT! There were many times when I put things back because I was getting too close to my food budget limit, and I wasn’t convinced that I actually needed whatever item was going to push me over the edge.
Of course, there are some other ways to save money when grocery shopping, or shopping period; but those tips will be in Thursday’s post – which is going to be a crazy awesome (and super big) post full of tips on saving money. So excited.
You’re going to LOVE it! (You better love it, I spent like 2 days researching that baby!)
It took me a little while to realize that the small savings actually made a difference in the long run. Once I realised it, I was hooked. That doesn’t mean I was a fanatic. I wasn’t.